We never really stop “coming out”.
It is something that becomes a regular part of everyday conversation. After all, it is our responsibility to disprove the assumption we never played a part in imbedding in a stranger’s mind, right? It is the real never ending story. Frustrations aside, we have gained access to one of the most highly efficient means of filtering. Our innate orientation unknowingly taps into the most advanced personality flaw detector in the social spectrum.
I cannot tell if this insight is a power or a weakness.
Perhaps it is both.